Safety Guides

• 1. Use Limited Personal Info

When you first connect, there's no need to share your full name, phone number, or social handles. Just your first name or a nickname is enough. Keep your private details private until you've built real trust.

• 2. Choose a Real, Clear Profile And Expect the Same

Red flags to avoid:

• No bio or suspiciously vague bios
• Only professional or filtered photos
• Profiles that get overly emotional too soon
• A real connection starts with honesty not pressure or mystery.

• 3. Ask for a Quick Voice or Video Call Before Meeting

This simple step filters out fake accounts and sets a tone of accountability. If they keep dodging it, move on.

• 4. Keep Conversations on Lubbuu

Scammers and fake users often try to move you to texting or messaging apps quickly. Don't switch platforms until you feel safe. Lubbuu's chat system is protected—your regular inbox isn't.

• 5. Trust Patterns, Not Promises

Pay attention to how someone speaks, not just what they say:

• Do they respect your boundaries?
• Are they consistent with their answers?
• Do they ask about you, or just talk about themselves?
• If anything feels rushed, invasive, or off, don't ignore it.

• 6. Never Share Financial Info—Ever

This includes your:

• Bank or card details
• Cash app usernames
• Crypto wallets
• Loan or investment accounts
• And never send money—no matter the story.

• 7. Major Red Flags to Watch For

They ask for money, help, or gifts

• They avoid video calls or making real plans
• They try to guilt you for asking questions
• They love-bomb early: 'You're my soulmate' within days
• They keep giving excuses or disappear and reappear randomly
• If you spot one, unmatch, block, and report immediately.

• 8. Meet in Public, Stay in Public

Choose safe, familiar spots: coffee shops, busy parks, or restaurants. Never go to someone's home or let them come to yours on a first or second date.

• 9. Tell Someone You Trust

Before heading out, let a friend or family member know:

• The person's first name (as shared on the app)
• A screenshot of their profile
• The location and time of the date
• A check-in time ('I'll text you at 7:30')
• This keeps you backed up without revealing your own private info too early.

• 10. Control Your Own Transportation

Always arrange your own ride whether you drive, walk, or use a ride-share app. Having your own exit plan means you can leave whenever you want, no questions asked.

• 11. Watch Your Drink and Your Belongings

Only accept drinks directly from the server or bartender—never from your date. Don't leave your food, drink, phone, or wallet unattended.

• 12. Limit What You Share in Conversation

Even in person, protect personal details like your:

• Full address
• Workplace specifics
• Daily routines
• Family or children's info
• Keep things light until you know someone better.

• 13. Listen to Your Gut—Always

If you feel uncomfortable, don't explain. Just leave. You owe no one an explanation for choosing your safety. And if needed, ask a nearby staff member for help discreetly.

• 14. Respect Means No Pressure & Clear Communication Builds Trust

If someone makes you feel rushed, shamed, or guilty for setting boundaries—that's not respect. You never owe anyone attention, affection, or time.

• A healthy connection includes:
• Respecting your pace
• Taking 'no' as a full sentence
• Being honest, not manipulative
• If they pressure you, twist your words, or test your limits—leave the situation.

• 15. Clear Communication Builds Trust

A healthy connection includes:

• Respecting your pace
• Taking 'no' as a full sentence
• Being honest, not manipulative
• If they pressure you, twist your words, or test your limits—leave the situation.